Move over traditional baby showers—there’s a new pre-baby trend focused less on gifts and more on getting things done. Nesting parties are practical, hands-on gatherings where friends and family help expectant parents prepare their home for a new arrival. Part celebration, part productivity session, these events are quickly becoming a favorite among modern families who want support that goes beyond onesies and diaper cakes.

Where the Trend Began

The idea of “nesting” comes from the natural instinct many expectant parents feel to organize and prepare their space before a baby arrives. Nesting parties began gaining traction in the United States in the late 2010s and early 2020s, fueled by social media and a cultural shift toward community-based support. Instead of focusing on material gifts, many parents began asking for help with real-life tasks. The concept spread quickly through parenting blogs, online forums, and word of mouth.

For Moms, Dads, or Everyone

Unlike traditional baby showers, which historically centered on mothers, nesting parties are typically designed for both parents—or any caregivers preparing for the baby. Partners, grandparents, and close friends all take part. The tone is casual and inclusive, reflecting the modern reality that preparing for a newborn is a team effort.

How They Differ from Baby Showers

While baby showers focus on celebrating with games, decorations, and gift-giving, nesting parties prioritize practical support. Guests may still bring small items or meals, but the main purpose is to help lighten the parents’ workload. The atmosphere tends to be relaxed, collaborative, and less formal than a traditional shower.

What Happens at a Nesting Party?

Activities vary depending on the family’s needs, but common tasks include assembling nursery furniture, organizing baby clothes, stocking the freezer with prepared meals, setting up diaper stations, baby-proofing cabinets, or deep-cleaning key areas of the home. Some gatherings even include errands, pet care planning, or helping write thank-you notes.

By the end of the day, the parents aren’t just celebrated—they’re supported, organized, and one big step closer to welcoming their newest family member with confidence.